Do you know what one of the most attractive things is to people? To see a person brimming with enthusiasm, confidence and anticipation of what’s next. A person like this is most likely pretty satisfied with who they are and just can’t wait to share with everyone.
I think that people like this really love themselves. They have most likely had plenty of opportunity to see evidence of who they are and how they impact the world by the reactions and reflections coming back to them from others.
I have to say that they are the most fortunate ones.
Many people never have positive feedback or reflections from others. Quite often, they’ve been chastised or criticized, all the way back to childhood. This is usually a result of their parents’ or caretakers’ own experiences repeating in their childrearing. So it’s not anyone’s fault, really.
So what can be done consciously to help to dissolve this pattern and to create a new healthy one?
- Invite people who will support and appreciate you into your life. Create an intention that the universe will give this to you and be open to receive. Visualize it already happening and mentally thank the people coming in.
- Clean up your act. Dress well, even if you work from home. Keep a clean and orderly home and work environment. There is nothing like the pleasure of a clean, pleasant and inviting space to spend time in.
- Look for at least one new consistent activity that you can do that will bring you pleasure and joy. Go out to dance, take a yoga class, see that great movie, go out to karaoke night or just initiate a deep conversation with a good friend who you appreciate and who appreciates you.
- Practice appreciation of others, just as you would like to be directed to you. Find the uniqueness in them and reflect it back to them. You will be surprised at how their reaction gives you satisfaction and even self appreciation!
I invite you to begin creating your own Self Appreciation process by claiming your 30minute “Soul Discovery, Soul Recovery” complementary session with me.
Contact me at: http://box5656.temp.domains/~rhondaea/contact-us/and we’ll set it up!
Wishing us all the courage to be open and appreciative of ourselves and each other!
For you Hebrew speakers, i invite you to listen to my interview on Bestliferadio with Eliyahu Holley on my Crystalline Matrix Sound Healing work: here’s what he had to say about it: The July 26 “Ring Ep” was hauntingly beautiful. Rhonda’s description of how she anchors crystalline grids into our DNA with sacred song and the geometries that they carry was fascinating. I especially love her channeled singing to activate the soul song of the people of this region and her songs of the grandmother council and the sacred vowels.Click on the link to listen:http://www.bestlife.co.il/?categoryId=67041&itemId=162838
Love and Blessings,
Rhonda Joy
Copyright Rhonda Joy Eagle, 2011
